Shit You Should Already Know: Sneak Peek #2

Here is another look at my book, in hair stores near you Spring 2011


SHIT YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW:
Chapter 2: Change Is Good, But Not Always Possible

"I wonder why so many women are more confident in their abilities to CHANGE a no good man than they are in their abilities to FIND a good one."


Some women must have never been told, so I'm gonna tell them...YOU CANNOT CHANGE PEOPLE!! If a person, in this case a man, doesn't want to change, there is nothing you can do to make him. You can love him all you want, give him whatever he wants, and run whatever "game" you think you're running, but the shit won't change.

And don't even begin to think just because you read it in an urban novel that the power of pussy is going to get you anywhere...it's not!! Women like to believe they have the power in a relationship because we can withhold the pussy...but if we really had the power, we wouldn't need to withhold the pussy in the first place. When you lay down together everything is all good, but when you get up, he's the same little boy that just sweated out your weave, fucked up your sheets, and left pleased. He's stupid and you're dumb.

We women know what kind of men we're getting. We just like to believe we can change them. I'm sorry to be the one to say this, but nothing about you is dynamic enough to change a man. It kills me when women get with a man with the intentions of changing him. Ummmmm..... WRONG!! I want to just shake the hell out of these females, rewind the entire "relationship", and pin point every time she should have kicked gravel and traveled.