Have you ever been out and about and seen a couple that consists of the finest, flyest, best dressed, sexiest, Shemar Moore, Tyson Beckford, Tyrese, Dwayne Wade lookin man to ever set foot on any surface of the planet...with a woman who couldn't pull a decent look together if you payed that bitch?...Yea, me either. Actually, I see this shit all the time and sometimes it really grinds my gears. I know you have all seen it, and you may not wanna admit it, but you've all thought to yourself "how in the FUCK did she get him?" Well, I'm here to explain to you why this may be. There are a few understandable reasons why this "Fine Man/Beauty Challenged Woman" situation can occur. Let me break it down for ya.
REASON #1: They were high school sweethearts. Back in the day (circa 1998) she was probably the finest thing in a pair of lime green Bongo jeans and a fan ponytail wit' a swoop (you know you had a pair of Bongo's). They fell in love when he was still "finding himself" style-wise and she thought she was grown and had already established her look. He was attracted to her confidence and she loved the fact that his position on the football team would elevate her popularity stock in the school. So they got together and the rest was history. Years later, when styles changed and what was cute back in 1998 was no longer acceptable as far as fashion was concerned she was stuck with her old, outdated style. But he evolved over the years and now he's fly by the fashion standards of today. He's lookin' like today while she's still looking like a broke down high school student.
REASON #2: He ain't shit and he's using her. He saw her out with a bunch of her ugly girlfriends. She was the best looking one in the bunch, which compared to her friends wasn't hard to accomplish. His pockets were low and the light bulb over his head lit up. He preyed on her insecurities and had her believing that it was a privilege for him to even be considering her and she should do all she could to keep him. Now, they've been together for a while and she believes he's the best thing since sliced bread and she does whatever it takes to keep him.
REASON #3: He feels like he owes her. When he was down on his luck, she was the "friend" that was there to help him out. They started a relationship and when he got on his feet his conscience wouldn't let him forget about all she had done for him. He feels like he owes her the loyalty that she gave him when he had nothing. A prime example of this is Tiny of the group Xscape and T.I. When they started dating, her group was hot shit and T.I. wasn't even a blip on the celebrity radar. Now, her group is obsolete and he's a household name, if he was to leave her, people would say, "he blew up and dropped her in a hurry."
*They say love is blind...that bitch must be deaf and dumb too.
REASON #1: They were high school sweethearts. Back in the day (circa 1998) she was probably the finest thing in a pair of lime green Bongo jeans and a fan ponytail wit' a swoop (you know you had a pair of Bongo's). They fell in love when he was still "finding himself" style-wise and she thought she was grown and had already established her look. He was attracted to her confidence and she loved the fact that his position on the football team would elevate her popularity stock in the school. So they got together and the rest was history. Years later, when styles changed and what was cute back in 1998 was no longer acceptable as far as fashion was concerned she was stuck with her old, outdated style. But he evolved over the years and now he's fly by the fashion standards of today. He's lookin' like today while she's still looking like a broke down high school student.
REASON #2: He ain't shit and he's using her. He saw her out with a bunch of her ugly girlfriends. She was the best looking one in the bunch, which compared to her friends wasn't hard to accomplish. His pockets were low and the light bulb over his head lit up. He preyed on her insecurities and had her believing that it was a privilege for him to even be considering her and she should do all she could to keep him. Now, they've been together for a while and she believes he's the best thing since sliced bread and she does whatever it takes to keep him.
REASON #3: He feels like he owes her. When he was down on his luck, she was the "friend" that was there to help him out. They started a relationship and when he got on his feet his conscience wouldn't let him forget about all she had done for him. He feels like he owes her the loyalty that she gave him when he had nothing. A prime example of this is Tiny of the group Xscape and T.I. When they started dating, her group was hot shit and T.I. wasn't even a blip on the celebrity radar. Now, her group is obsolete and he's a household name, if he was to leave her, people would say, "he blew up and dropped her in a hurry."
*They say love is blind...that bitch must be deaf and dumb too.
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